How do we figure out whether or not a life has value? Honestly, we don’t. The question is so subjective and depends entirely on perspective. There isn’t a universal formula for determining a life’s value because it varies so differently from person to person, shaped by individual experiences, beliefs, and what they hold important. Some might define value through accomplishments, while others may see it in simply existing. Life’s meaning and purpose are flexible, changing with personal stories, goals, and relationships. Ultimately, “value” is something we each define for ourselves. Additionally, there isn’t a specific time when we decide whether a life has value. It varies based on individual reflection. Personally, I believe the meaning and purpose of life is simply to be. A person’s existence should bring joy, as we naturally form connections, whether it’s a brief encounter or long-term relationships with loved ones. These moments of connection are what make life meaningful.
- Lifelong/long-term friendship
The idea of experiencing long-term friendships is important to me because friends are people who stick with you throughout life. Although specific friendships may end, you form new ones at different stages—whether in elementary school, college, or even later in life. Unlike other relationships, like those with significant others or parents, which can start later or end due to circumstances, friendships can span various phases of life. I value friendships because they are extensions of your own persona; the friends you choose often reflect who you are. They influence your actions and help shape your identity. You learn from them, take advice, and through those interactions, you become a better version of yourself. Friendships are essential in helping us grow and understand ourselves.
- Marriage
For me, I want to experience love and invest in marriage because I’ve seen how meaningful and fulfilling it can be for others, like my parents. They always seem to have each other’s backs and never grow tired of one another. Marriage provides companionship and a deep emotional connection that can make life’s ups and downs easier to navigate. Beyond personal reasons, marriage is valuable to humanity because it demonstrates love, trust, and stability, contributing to the formation of strong families and communities. It symbolizes the idea of a partnership and love that transcends time, giving people a support system in everyday life.
- Academia
As we talked about in class, humanity values the pursuit of knowledge, which can be traced back to literature like The Epic of Gilgamesh. In the epic, Gilgamesh’s quest for knowledge and immortality mirrors humanity’s ongoing desire to understand the world and themselves. Similarly, I value knowledge and hope to experience all levels of education: from college to graduate school and more. I am excited to explore topics that interest me, even if I’m not certain what those are yet. Learning and pursuing knowledge are top priorities for me because they help shape our understanding of the world, both personally and collectively.
- Collection of objects
It seems kind of superficial to have “objects” ranked #4 most important things I value, but I think the things that you possess carry a lot of power in telling who you are as a person. For example, someone who collects magnets from different countries likely enjoys traveling, while someone who collects spices may love cooking. Hence, collections of objects are valuable to humanity because they indirectly tell others the things that a person values, or who they are as a person. For me, I am a person that values consistency in life: a firm hater in unexpected events, unorganized plans, and new things. Hence, in a world full of unpredictability, I take comfort in my collection of clothing, specifically my 11 different-colored Columbia fleece jackets and 6 vests. These collections bring a sense of stability and reduce daily stress. By the end of my life, I hope to have built some collection of items that bring me comfort and consistency.
- Collection of memories/stories
This idea of “collections” also extends to memories, but I consider them separate because memories are more about experiences. Whether someone keeps a camera roll filled with pictures, an instagram page documenting fun events, or a journal keeping track of small interactions, we gravitate towards leaving memories behind, or documenting our life events. Hence, keeping track of memories is valuable to humanity because they act as small fragments of our own life and legacies that we can leave behind after our death. I keep track of my memories through perfumes, believing that fragrances are the most powerful way to bring back moments. Each of the 13 scents in my collection has an anecdote attached—a scent that reminds me of COVID isolation, my grandmother’s house, or my hometown. By the end of my life, I hope to have a vast collection of perfumes that can capture the essence of my life, including my college experience, my first job, and even my wedding day.
- Small & meaningful interactions
I want to be remembered for the small yet meaningful interactions I have with people. I don’t think any single word can fully describe anyone because people are too complex for simple labels. Instead, I value the everyday moments, like saying “thank you, have a nice day” or cheering a friend on at their sports game. These small gestures are significant to me because they reflect how I want to interact with the world. For humanity, small acts of kindness or attention often mean more than big gestures. Whether it’s a pet’s comforting presence or holding the door for someone, these little interactions make life brighter and bring people together in simple yet powerful ways.